"Every woman has two brains, ONE in the upper part of the body i.e. the head and the other in the lower part of the body." Says the famous opera queen Gioconda Vessichelli... By Sulena Majumdar Arora

There is a saying in English that beauty and brain are like two swords in a sheath. That's why both are never seen together, but naughty, perky, beautiful, playful, famous Opera, Pop, Fusion Bollywood, Bolivupera Singer, Composer Lyricist, Conductor, Director and Dancer, Gioconda Vessichelli, (who sang songs for many Bollywood movies like Ziddi Dil, .Itni Si Baat Hai, That's Amor, Contigo Bom Bom, Thodi Daru, Bom Bom Challenge, Jhoom Jhoom) has proved that she is not only beautiful and talented but also a very intelligent girl.

In fact, when she said in the past about the show of Mika's swayamvar, that she is like Mika's sister and wishes that a gentleman like Mika should get a good wife and also she said that Mika should give lot of thought while choosing a wife, for which she is willing to help her brother, so this conversation raised my curiosity about Gioconda's personal life.

Does she herself think the same way about marriage, has she also ever fallen in love with someone, is she liberal about live-in relationships. As soon as this thought came in my mind, I contacted her secretary Laura and talked about the interview.

At that time, Geoconda was in Australia, so I got the answers to these questions by chatting through WhatsApp. Here are the excerpts from the candid conversation with Gioconda :-

As Mika's sister, you think so much about his marriage, but never told anything about yourself, today I want to ask what do you think about marriage?

Gioconda Vessichelli: It is a prison, a conventional institution that civilized countries have invented to make people depressed so that they can manipulate the masses easier (if we look at tribal people or historically at the time before the so called "civilization", men and women were FREE to express their natures without putting themselves into a cage.. Look at the era of khajurao, for example! or even nowadays to those free tribal people.. I also lived with them for sometimes..

They don't know psychologists, depressions etc.. Just because they just express themselves Freely, as soon as they get tired of someone they go ahead with someone else, with no ranchor, prejudice, criticism.. Just by FOLLOWING the rhythm of Nature because they are aware of the REAL NATURE of mankind.. We belong to the animal specie after all.. Not to the vegetable specie!

Did you fall in love anytime ?

Gioconda; I am in love with life and with whatever vibrates of spontaneity, so I am in constant love with nature and with people who follow their nature.

What type of man you are looking for ?

I am not looking for any man, because I have everything inside myself and I love myself a lot, but if you insist, I would say, I mainly love those people who vibrates with funny and unconventional energies.. They can even be not super handsome but they have that kind of vibration.

In my life I refused many actors and super awesome men.. (those ones with super sculpted bodies but less muscles in their brains!!! :-) and I preferred to choose those men who were less handsome but who stimulated my brain better, (and not only brain.) being a woman yourself, I hope you understand, what I mean by saying brain and not only brain, : generally I do the DANCING TEST.. Already by looking at the way they dance and move their bodies, I can understand if he can be chosen by me or not.

What do you think of live in relationship ?

Gioconda: Same as marriage but slightly better because at least when you feel bored and tired about doing always the same things with the same people, you can change without giving much money to lawyers for getting divorce.

Right now are you involved with anybody?

Gioconda: What do you mean by involvement? I have been involved in my life with hundreds of beautiful vibrant people.. It was such an intense involvement that it lasted few hours or few days or sometimes few months depending on how much fire was burning inside each of them.

I think that the beauty of life is not about the duration of a relationship but about the INTENSITY! That is the only one which can give you real deep happiness and connect you with the cosmic beautiful energies of life!

What Gioconda actually meant when she said "who stimulates my brain and not only brain.. She was meaning CLITORIS, As she believes that every woman has 2 brains, one upstairs in the head and one downstairs in vagina"...

She said she hates people who are unable to express their real thoughts and who turn around too much for expressing a thought.

The interview was mesmerizing, Myself being a woman and being able to talk to another woman on this level was also a supernatural experience for me.

Gioconda told me in a very clear tone that every woman has two brains, one in the upper part of the body ie the head and the other in the lower part of the body ie in the vagina.

I am astonished by the impeccable speech of Gioconda. It was amazing. How real is this woman, without any pretense, strong headed, concrete, straight forward, in her pure, natural form.