Falaq Naaz,” I'm with Sheezan, whatever he wishes to do I will stand by his side in that same manner, extending all my support to him.”

Falaq Naaz evicted contestant  from BB OTT2, talks about relationships stand, family bonding, experiencing not so good childhood, and the testing times the family had gone through when her only brother  Sheezan Khan was jailed in  Tunisha Sharma’s suicide case- Both Sheezan and  Tunisha played the male and female lead in,” Ali Baba Dastan E Kabul.” Sheezan Khan is now out on bail –Read to know how the family stood through these testing times and it is their strong family bond and support that has brought them back to normal life. Both Sheezan and Falaq are professionally doing well and are strong enough to face the world now.

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You are so honest and pure that we witnessed in the show and also during your media interactions when your brother was going through a bad phase being questioned legally. How would you describe yourself in real life?

In real life also I'm honest and I just can't dramatize unnecessarily, until I'm forced to raise my voice given such a situation which is not within my control. If I  can convey my message in a subtle manner, why not? I'm a very calm and quiet person. I like to put across my thought process subtly.

The family was very balanced during the testing times when your brother Shezaan, faced some charges in Tunisha Sharma suicide case charges, how did you guys manage it?

I would say the credit goes to my mother who has brought us up to be able to go ahead in life in a very balanced manner no matter when we are going through a rough patch of time. These ethical and balanced values and how to deal with such times remain unphased has been taught to us by my mother right from our childhood days.

Could you elaborate on your not-so-good childhood days?

Talking to you I'm getting goosebumps...I had this childhood where I have seen my mother being abused. My parents had huge fights. It was tough for my mother to have gone through that abuse while she was nurturing us. Bringing us up for her was a herculean task as she did it as a single parent. I have seen my mother crying and yet managing our lives, this visual was painful but the most learning experience for me and it would be for any kid. Either the child will turn revengeful or the child may turn into a brat completely. Someone like me being the eldest decided to take all the responsibilities on my shoulders. I would try and help mom in bringing up the other siblings of mine. I had no choice as I had to look up to my mother as I was left with no option.

You left your schooling and also would not have food to eat yet you seem to be humble, any learning’s to share?

I had left my schooling. At times we had nothing to eat. I remember we would eat the peels of onions. These old memories triggered in me while I was inside the OTT 2 BB house also. But some way I held myself from getting back into those horrifying experiences. Humbleness is something you can’t fake or pretend unless it is within you. My only motive is I don’t wish to hurt anyone knowingly or unknowingly. I have learned all this from what my mother went through. The pain and agony didn’t deter her, instead she was so cool and calm yet struggling through all these bad times  brought us up to be humble.

What are the strengths of the family that enabled you guys to come out from the recent testing times when Sheezan was put behind the bars?

Patience in one word, never give up on time. Ultimately, you will find a way out for everything that you may be experiencing at that point of time in whatever situation you are in. One should never give up in any given situation. Maybe you are in any relationship as you will have to stand for yourself. I think I need not describe myself to any individual unless he or she is important to you.  Today, we are back to work. This is a proven fact of being patient then...yeh ussi sabar ka fal hai.

When you were in the hospital and on the other hand your brother was put behind the bars how would you describe this period, it must have been very rough? Any message to people who might go through such a phase?

I’ll just say... I wish nobody faces this kind of a dual situation in life where on the one hand you are physically feeble and bedridden and on the other hand your family member has only one brother who is facing legal trials, I know how it feels. We believed in the almighty god with clear intention. So patience has enabled us to come out of this trial and tribulation phase.

From here onwards you and your brother will not face any difficulties in finding work that you guys faced a few months back. Nobody was ready to give work to you?

As of now, I'm not looking for work. I'm just enjoying this fact. Suddenly I opted for this reality show as I wanted people to know where I belong. To quite an extent –silently, I have shown my individual personality to the audiences. People have understood that even in a game I cannot try dirty just to win?

Your family is a bonded family dealt with very well. How do you look at this bonding?

We lived all alone during our childhood days so now we live together dealing with the ups and downs in life that we face. If we face things together we become stronger. We will never leave each other. If family members can't stand for each other then it can’t be called a family worthwhile. Being together is our family strength.

Being the elder sister what support are you giving to Sheezan who faced dual hiccups losing his beloved and facing legal issues?

I'm with Sheezan, whatever he wishes to do I will stand by his side in that same manner, extending all my support to him. I always lend my ears to him to understand him and if I find he is going wrong I definitely explain the righteous things to him. But I think, right now facing so much in this age he has developed all those sensibilities in him that this short life has taught him. He is an understanding child. I'm with him at all times in life.

Any message to girls of your age as they give in in to heart breaks and tries to commit suicide etc?

This happens with those who just get into a relationship immediately without calculating the pros and cons.And if any one individual in that relationship tries to quit. This creates tough goings for the ones who are left behind. Rather we should not quickly jump into any relationships. One should understand each other and then try to get into it.There are many options nowadays therefore today's generation leaves one and gets into another relationship in no time. Take your time, live your life and keep yourself on priority, which I’m doing right now.